Before the game we would have undoubtedly settled for a losing bonus point but in the end we were left disappointed not to come away with more and wishing we could have turned just one of a couple of great opportunities into tries.
The fact we played half of the second period without one flanker thanks to back-to-back yellow cards underlines the effort put in by all the players and even after conceding 17 second half points we fought back and could have won the game at the end, eventually being held up after a number of surges for the line.
It was Mowden who had the best of the early play with fly-half Grant Connon going close after a break by Chris Peace but his attempted off-load went forward and we were able to clear. Connon then had a penalty attempt come back off the post and that seemed to be our cue to get into the game.
We dominated possession and territory for the rest of the half with Stu Waites slotting 3 penalties from 3 attempts to keep the scoreboard ticking over. His first came on 12 minutes when a good rolling maul set up an attack which eventually led to a penalty just inside the 22. Andrew Foreman tapped quickly but was tackled instantly and the extra 10 metres made it easy for Waites.
Scott Butcher came closest to a try with a great run up the right wing, stepping inside his opposite number and barging trough the tackle of the full-back only to be stopped a couple of metres short by the final covering defender.
The hosts got briefly back on the front foot approaching the half hour with a chip through from scrum-half Todd Harrison being gathered by Paul Shepherd who looked like scoring but was again stopped short and we earned a penalty for not releasing. Connon had another shot at goal on 28 minutes, this time drifting wide of the posts.
Mowden were intent on throwing the ball around and at times it was causing them more harm than good with some wild looping passes allowing us to put pressure on. A good clearance to touch from Waites was quickly taken by full-back Max Connon but his long pass was knocked on and from the resulting scrum we earned a penalty for standing up and Waites again made no mistake.
Luke Watson saw yellow for not rolling away on 38 minutes but was followed off just two minutes later by Mowden skipper Junior Fagalilo for persistent infringements, both decisions looking fairly harsh in a game that hadn't been dominated by the referee's whistle.
There was still time for Waites to add his third penalty, three minutes into stoppage time but again it was so close to being more. Mowden had turned the ball over inside their own 22 and for a moment looked to move the ball along the backline for a breakaway. But Grant Connon was caught in two minds in the shadow of his own posts and gifted a pass to Greg Edwards who looked to be through for a try but was dragged down short and in the end we had to settle for the three points.
After a tremendous first half effort the half time team talk had to be all about not conceding points at the start of the second half but we couldn't have started it any worse. Mowden were immediately on the offensive and as they built pressure close to the line a mix-up in our defence allowed Harrison to slip over unchallenged from the side of a ruck and leave Connon an easy conversion.
The hosts were now looking far more dangerous on the attack and were again attacking just short of the line when Dan Boatman dove on a ball the referee adjudged still the be in the ruck and the captain was despatched to the sin-bin for 10 minutes. Connon was again wide with the resultant penalty leaving us still leading with 56 minutes played.
We extended that lead two minutes later with another Waites shot at goal, this time from a much tougher position, wide on the right, after Michael Taylor won the penalty with some great work at the breakdown. Unfortunately it was Taylor who'd be the next to be shown the yellow card, this time for a high tackle, just as Dan Boatman was about to return to the field. It proved to be a killer blow as just a minute later replacement Andy Tonkin barrelled his way just to the right of the posts, leaving Connon another easy conversion for the lead.
Connon extended that lead with a penalty 6 minutes from time but we still had an opportunity to win the game in the dying minutes. We earned penalties at two consecutive scrums in the Mowden 22, driving the home eight back, and then had a series of phases where we seemed to be inching closer and closer the line. Finally the referee's whistle was blown and his arm raised but it was for a Mowden penalty not a try and signalled the end of a valiant effort, fully deserving of the losing bonus point.
West: Waites, A Cheslin, Edwards, Watson, Butcher, G Foreman, A Foreman, Carr, Bailey, Coates, T Dixon, Davies, Taylor, D Boatman, Gilmour.
Pens: Waites 4
Yellow cards: Watson [38], D Boatman [55], Taylor [67]
Darlington Mowden Park: M Connon, Shepherd, Mitchell, Peace, Lister, G Connon, Harrison, Dixon, Fagalilo, Miller, Young, Schofield, Riley, Wishnowsky, Merton.
Reps: Appleby, Tonkin, Wilson
Tries: Harrison, Tonkin
Cons: Connon 2
Pen: Connon
Yellow card: Fagalilo [40]